How to tell my wife?

jdc3 · Panty "BRONZE" Joined: Aug 08, 2007 Posts: 3

I love to wear panties. My wife knows that I like skimmpy underwear but doesn't know I wear panties. I have even worn some of her old white cotton panties before and put them in the hamper; she washed them and put them in my drawer. She just thought they were a pair of my bikinis. My wife is very conservative. How can I get her to be open minded about me wearing panties?

ThomasAr1 · Panty "GOLD" Joined: Jun 03, 2007 Posts: 39 Location: Ma

Try it out during sex tell her to wear some nice panties to bed and ask her to try them on and tell her it is just the fabric you like very much. Or just come out and tell her she might surprise you.Try it see what happens.Good luck

Annabelle · Site Admin Joined: Feb 24, 2006 Posts: 22471

I agree with ThomasAr1. start of by asking her to wear a pair that you like alot. then make love to her and take it from there. Or as ThomasAr1 just tell her up front she find it funny but yet sexy. If you have been together for a while you might find she want to please you. But make sure you find out what fetish she has. I say this because if you show interest in her fetish too you maybe on to a winner with your own.

Annabelle

Fenman · Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 7:23 pm Post subject: Re: How to tell my wife?

Just tell her that her personal fragrance turns you on like no other woman and her knickers are a way to remind you. She can't be annoyed cos you're paying her a compliment for god's sake!!!

While you're at it give her one for me.

pushnpull · Panty "SILVER" Joined: Mar 01, 2007 Posts: 19

I agree with Annabelle - very important to find her fetish and give her plenty of pleasure through it, then in return you can discuss your fetish(es!!). I also find humour is a great way of introducing a topic. Try telling her that she (and all women) are so lucky ... that they are able to wear panties 'cos (as the guys say) the fabric and fit is so fantastic and gives you a real turn on to see it. Depending on what she's like, she might at this point suggest you try it, but at the very least you've broken the ice and are starting to make it into a humerous thing (as she might be so surprised that you've given it that much thought. You could then just jokingly say you don't mind if i try do you?

pushnpull · Panty "SILVER" Joined: Mar 01, 2007 Posts: 19

Sorry jdc3, I meant to add - good luck and keep us posted.

gary46 · Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 11:37 pm Post subject: Re: How to tell my wife?

Therre is no telling her other than wearing them to bed with her. I'm sure you will not regret it. My wife fell in love with my panties the first time over 20 years ago. There is nothing wrong with loving panties! Go for it!

cracklewalk · Posted: Wed May 28, 2008 2:26 am Post subject: Re: How to tell my wife?

Take the advice given above. She may already suspect that you like them.

ThomasAr1 · Panty "GOLD" Joined: Jun 03, 2007 Posts: 39 Location: Ma

Just jump into you have a lot of backing in this area.Let us know how it works out for you.

pkmoonman · Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 7:16 pm Post subject: Re: How to tell my wife?

Hummm, let me think about this a minute.....I've got it! I'll have sex with her while wearing my panties! That'll show her how hot and sexy it is! Then the door is wide open for you. She'll be begging you to panty up that ass of yours.
Maybe you could take pictures to share here! What do you think? Laughing

I got lucky when I caught a pair of panties thrown from a stage during a show, took them home and my wife asked if I was going to wear them and give her a show! Incredible turn-on for her. So if somehow you could "get your hands" some panties, then playfully ask if she would like a fashion show!
Hey, it worked for me! Good luck, keep us posted.

ROC4FUN · Panty "PLATINUM" Joined: Mar 03, 2007 Posts: 51

hey tell her she already knows you said it ur-selif shes putting the panties ur wearing ,after washing them in your dwawer nope she knows what shes wearing and your snaking her oldies and that may be funny too some but you go out and buy some that fit her and u give her hers and something nicer than you been playing w/ and have ur own that fit and just cruz into it ive never had a cituation wheres my girl friends @ the time didnt like having some good fun and find out what she wants and do it good luck ...

PantyPeter · Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 2:48 am Post subject: Re: How to tell my wife?

These guys have sound advice. My wife is ultraconservative, but she is really cool about my panties. The first time I wore them when we were fooling around in the living room in bright light. I was really nervous, but the thought of exposing myself to her wearing her panties made me really excited too. First she unzipped my pants and put her hand in to stroke me. Then she got curious about what she felt and undid my pants. I was nervous but rock hard. She looked kind of surprised, but I think the sight of me wearing her panties aroused her too. She was fine with it and we've had great sex ever since with both of us wearing panties. It feels so good to slide against her, and it turns her on too. She even buys me panties and insists I wear them.

Work up the courage. If she loves you she'll understand, and she probably already suspects anyway!

Brianne · Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 2:23 pm Post subject: Re: How to tell my wife?

I hope it works out for you, as it did for me.

My wife knows that I love to handle her knickers(panties) as much as possible.

So we have a 'knicker stick'.

When the washing machine is finished I have to pick out her knickers and thread them through a stick to hang for drying over a radiator.

I love her, she is so understanding

VFPanties · Posted: Mon Jul 31, 2023 12:49 pm Post subject: Re: How to tell my wife?

Wife and I wear matching pairs sometimes. It so hot when we both play in our panties.